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My Sexual User's Guide v. 1.0
Posted:Jun 28, 2018 11:27 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2018 3:52 pm
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PHILOSOPHY To be honest, I still struggle with sexual trauma of my past, but as I get older, I'm embracing that I'm a sexual being deserving of pleasure and wanting to give pleasure. Sex is natural, nudity is natural and our bodies- what they can and can't do aren't anything to be ashamed of. Nothing wrong with what your desires are. Sex isn't a weapon to be used to coerce or harm anyone emotionally, physically, or psychologically. Sex should be a consensual act between adults of legal age. There should be no pressure to have sex if a person isn't ready. I believe that people shouldn't be punished for consenting, and then changing their minds later on; their decision should be respected. I believe that the government should fuck off when it comes to what two or more consenting adults do in their bedroom. I believe women should have more sexual freedom, and that their bodies aren't objects or ornaments. I believe that not all men oversexed, and that some do want to have sex when they feel ready. Just like I dont believe that all women are demure and have a low sex drive.

ORIENTATION:
I'm straight, boo. Because I dislike how men tend to treat women and I'm very vocal about that doesn't mean I'm going to switch teams. Now what type of man, the less touched by toxic masculine stereotypes the better.

PREFERENCES

*A no pressure daytime meet in public, i.e the mall, starbucks (or a better coffee spot) or over lunch.

*I don't have a car, so I prefer being picked up. If you don't have a car, I can make it by uber, but this would have to be at the top of the month.

*To host at my place, since I feel safer and have the home advantage. Right now I live with family with a religious mom and two small children (not mines), so if you can pop for a room, that's fine. If you can host at your place, even better.

*To have conversation, a massage or cuddle; I have anxiety disorder and before sex is when I'm the most nervous. Even if I'm into the guy, I need reassurance and it's nothing personal against the guy.

*Proper hygiene, a clean space and clean clothes. I always shower, brush my teeth, etc, and trim my pubic hair (unless I'm lazy) and clean my area before meeting someone, and I expect the same.

*To have antibacterial wipes or hand sanitizer on hand, and to not use spit as lube since I'm prone to yeast infections and BV. Not a neat freak, just careful when it comes to germs and sexual contact.

*If we haven't agreed ahead of time that it's a casual but "monogamous" thing with both of us having been tested recently- I HIGHLY prefer using condoms. I have an IUD, but the nature of the device won't allow me catching STI.

*To have a slightly warm-ish room, because I feel I perform better when I'm not cool or freezing.

*To have water or gatorade and snacks on hand. Because you work up and appetite and you sweat, duh. Also because no one can perform on an empty stomach, and I also get low blood sugar.

*To at least go more than one round and have more than one orgasm, if possible. Of course there's schedules to consider, but in general I don't normally care for just one go around. Even if it's just helping me while I get my ownself off.

*To please each other equally; I don't do selfish lovers or "pillow princess" shit. I give back as good as he gives me. If you can't, don't expect to see me again.

*To use toys and sexual aids (like lube for example) to enhance the experience, and not to be shamed or embarrassed or denied using toys and aids. (some guys have tried to get me off by sheer will, but I do need outside stimulation that's more than just vaginal penetration and mindless thrusting)

*Boundaries and consent, and to discuss anything we'd like to do before entering into a sexual relationship. Not forced to do anything I don't want to, and the guy to have the same expectation.

TURN ONS (physical)
Toned shoulders
Graceful necks
Forearms
Brunettes - not dirty blonde, or plain brown hair but rich and dark brown, dark auburn
"Salt & pepper" brunettes
Bald guys with groomed beards
Groomed beards and stubble
Abs
Full lips or well-shaped mouths
Freckles and moles
Pale, but not transclusent skin
Curly or wavy hair
Thick and groomed eyebrows
Husky/thick built men, i.e "big handsome men", "dad bods", pre-Marvel Chris Pratt, "teddy bears"
Swimmer's build, i.e tall, lean and athletic or short, athletic and lean
Dimples
Eyelashes
Bubble butts
Toned calves and thighs
Scars (depending on the guy and where the scars are located)
Adonis belts
**keep in mind, any of these in combination and not all are set in stone

TURN ONS (sexual)

Grunts, long and vulnerable moaning, groans
Uncut cock
Hangy ballsacks
Guys who pre cum
Grinding against my backside or crotch during foreplay
Ear play: heavy breathing, licking, lightly stroking, lobe nibbling
"Begging" to be inside me
Breast and nipple play: licking, nibbling, pinching, kneading, groping, sucking, etc
Nipple play and making out
Displays of strength (if at all possible): picked up and carried, yanked towards him, being pinned down during sex
Necking

TURN OFFS/ OFF LIMITS
Pushiness/impatience
Negging, begging, any form of manipulation
R*** fantasies
Scat, blood, spit
Incest fantasies
Bestiality
Children
Bad hygiene (unkempt hair and or facial hair, long nails, dirty clothes, BO, untrimmed or unshaved pubes, stank breath)
Lying about important things, i.e having a partner, having children
Disregard for sexual health, i.e not using condoms
Sexually aggressive from the jump
Being called "sweetie" or any term of endearment without knowing me
For White guys, asking me "If I ever been with a white guy" or basically implying that your interest in me is for bucket list purposes

FETISHES

Ass play: rimming, fingering, groping, biting
Bulges, hard-ons, dick prints and outlines
Creampies
Oil play - coconut oil/baby oil/lubed handjobs
Spanking - ass and breasts
Sensory stimulation: fabrics across the nipples and clit for example, aural stimulation: distinctive voices, being vocal
Nipples
Facesitting
Hickies
Parked car sex
Passive exhibitionism
Hands and finger worship (if he has nice hands)
Biting: wrists, upper back, butt, collar bone

Favorite positions
Doggy style, cowgirl, missionary, spooning position, belly down w/ guy on top
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The future of sex?
Posted:Nov 15, 2018 8:48 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2018 12:17 am
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I decided to ask you guys this question; since I posed such a question to one of the walking gonads of this website, and him expecting something more scintillating and simple never replied to me. I honestly don't think it a hard question to answer...

Do you think that we as humans will still be having sex with each other with all the technologies and social trends developing in the next generation or so?

If we attention to the current trends right now in the world, including social ones like the #metoo movement, which has sent men who aren't even guilty of anything running away in paranoia. In places like Japan where women opt for rental boyfriends, "host clubs" and even having guys to come by cry with them (yes, this is a thing)

Or technology like VR? 3D printing? Vaginal restorative surgeries? Men literally being given new dicks that they lost in accidents and scientists who can incubate fetuses in pods, kind of like in The Matrix.

Most of all, the internet and AI. People are opting more for just having cam and cyber sex, instead of going out to meet people in person. We work longer hours for less , and in general, people date less often when there's no prosperity going around. Realistic sex dolls are an option for those who can afford it. Artificial intelligence, even though on a small scale is a reality right now. We already have robots that can run, backflip, and carry on full conversation...its only a matter of time before we have "pleasure bots"...

What do you guys think? And do you think you would participate in these future trends?
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Everything hurts and I'm dying
Posted:Nov 2, 2018 10:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2018 9:44 am
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For the past nine , moving just myself wasn't much of a pain because it was just me. After today, so many mysteries I've yet to have answered, like: HOW CAN THIS FAMILY AFTER SO MANY DONATIONS TO GOODWILL STILL HAVE THIS MUCH FUCKING SHIT?! Really...what's the biggest truck uhaul has? Times that by two trips, and we still had to throw stuff away.

Also...

Why are children?

I love my little niece, and she loves me. Anytime she sees me, she takes off crawling towards my direction and I smother her with hugs and kisses. Yet, sometimes I think that her father is actually a banshee, maybe demon? She bucks, she wails, she screeches and struggles and more often than not I want to drug her sippy cup with with melatonin. Imagine a car ride for twenty minutes of just that. Imagine her crawling out the door in the midst of moving. Imagine her brother who is like a cat incarnate, because he literally gets into everything. If not that, he's literally underfoot almost causing accidents...

WHY DO YOU PEOPLE WANT THESE GOTDAMN THINGS? YES, I CALLED THEM THINGS. I DON'T CARE.

Can't you tell tired?

So we took so long despite a team of sister, BIL, my teenage nephew and myself. The Youngest Sibling ™ shirked responsibility by going to work. This is not odd until you know that she does this when it counts. She almost cost us the deposit because she didn't have her share. My mom, ever the enabler paid her part. She also did the entitled cunt thing and complained about what little she did do to "help". So our rag tag crew hauled heavy shit in the rain twice times over ontop of cleaning what we could, to which we'll be back over the weekend.

I have the room at the very end of the hall. We have our own bathroom on our side. And thank Christ, my sister and her family are on their own. We still have about 70% left to unpack and put away but right now, so tired that sleeping on the floor, which is carpeted. My back will probably benefit from this.

One more thing - no internet or cable because I wasn't sure if we due to govt bureaucracy would even get the fucking place. Govt subsidy requires an inspection and thankfully it passed. But I also didn't secure a reschedule, so the cable guy came by for nothing and Monday would be the soonest he could return. Yeah...

I don't give a fuck, maybe things will get done expeditiously, instead of everyone glued to the idiot box...an me at the world wide idiot box.
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Down to the wire.
Posted:Oct 29, 2018 5:58 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2018 9:50 am
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Coming down to the wire. Already established internet and cable service for the new place, and got 70% of my stuff put away and packed. One thing that irks me hard is that I have extra stuff in the outside closet that I need to get out of the way, but the key? Where's the fucking key? It's always been in the junk drawer in the kitchen, but Wonder Woman, my mother, probably lost it in her crusade to pack away stuff people still need to use. Anyway, I'm not leaving my kitchenwares behind to be put on the side of the curb by management. If I have to lug her her out of bed to help me find it, so be it because everything expected of me in this house I do...even when tired and even when everyone except my youngest sister busts their asses to keep things going around here...

Also, my period is on, and I have the feeling that I'm not going to be here for anyone's shit. So no more elderly viagra fueled males accosting me in my inbox. No more zygotes who haven't reached sexual or emotional maturity thinking they had a prayer in hell with me and no more of the dumpster fire that is Free Sex Chat Adult Dating Personals. Not until I'm settled into this other place with my equally infuriating family.

My profile will be off maybe temporarily, so thirsty fuckboys of all ages, enjoy the saggy udders for a few hours more. I have shit to do, and I don't need the extra stress of sorry ass do nothing males viewing me with intent of doing fuck all (or in this case, fuck less)
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Friday Ketchup: Amy is on the move
Posted:Oct 26, 2018 7:09 pm
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2018 8:12 pm
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Been awhile since I did one of these...plus trying not to fall asleep, until I scrape together something to eat. You see, after six months of being here, bound to pack up my shit for the second time this fucking year and move. This time with my family. As shitty as they are, I've become "comfortably numb" to the dysfunction and chaos, but I look forward to this one: we get an extra bathroom! No more waiting for the youngest sibling and her thirty minute showers. No more musky, damp, mildewy, piss smell with a top note of toothpaste and cheap bodywash. Also, better side of town.

I used to live in the neighborhood around the corner from this apartment complex we're moving to and I loved it. 10-15 drive via the interstate from a variety of decent places to shop, 5 from the mall (traffic permitting) and another 5 for my primary care doctor. I haven't told my FWB "Veggie" yet, but he won't have to drive far to come get me, since the hotel he always books in town is on my new side of town. Huzzah. Plus, my married friend "Papi" works on that side of town, too. going to get to him, because I saw him last night.

Moving is painful at least here, because everyone is broke and there's no food with the exception of ramen. I blame myself this time. The money I did have after bills was squandered away on emotional eating....well, you try being who I am, living with whom living with and you'd stuff your face too. That and plans were tentative at best, because we're dealing with subsidized housing. We're woefully underprepared, but still pushing through.

So a meltdown about dearth of boxes and food, acerbated by my lack of decent sleep, and shiftless youngest sister being mouthy, useless and lazy while everyone else busted their asses, pushed me over the edge. Fortunately I was talking to him, and he delivered on the boxes at least.

I hadn't seen him in person for weeks, and the first kiss he gave me before he brought the boxes in my house...shit, I think rose off my feet a little. It was rainy that night, so I insisted we mess around in his jeep for a few minutes; plus this was around the time BIL was going to go fetch my sister from work, so him and the kids walking on me getting kissed and felt up wouldn't of been embarrassing to say the least.

How does one explain bliss? He looked, smelled, tasted, sounded and felt heavenly. I drowned in his soft lips and his hands groped and kneaded my boobs, nipples were pinched and sucked. His fingers tried to rub me off outside my PJ bottoms and I almost came from that...he was that good. After twenty minutes, we had to wrap it up, but before he walked me to my door I took his thumb and simulated a blowjob which made him even more rock hard. Of course he had to let me see and feel, and sure enough, throbbing and straining against his work slacks.

It took a lot of will for us to get out of his car and him to get me to the door, but finally after some petting, necking and rubbing against each other he finally got me to the door. And we still couldn't keep our hands off each other. But we finally parted after that, him leaving me with a kiss and caress of my face that had me floating again.

You know, after that, I feel purposeful again. Just five more days of packing and getting things in order. Five more days until I have a fresh start, sort of. But most, not too long before I get to see him more than just a few weeks at a time...
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A little sexy survey of sorts
Posted:Oct 24, 2018 11:31 am
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2018 11:51 am
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In honor of Scorpio season, sexy stuff, since they're the sign that rules that department. Besides, it's time to take a break from the serious for a few.

1. What is your definition of sexy? Is it an inherent trait or something you work towards?
2. What do you find sexy about yourself? (it can be physical or other)
3. Is there a scent, piece of clothing or something you do or say that turns on others?
4. Sexiest song you ever heard?
5. Sexiest celebrity?
6. Sexiest field of work?
7. Something out of the ordinary that turns you on?
8. Sexiest star sign (if astrology isn't your thing, you can skip it)
9. Sexiest color a person can wear?
10. Who's the sexiest member on this website? And why?

My answers if anyone is interested...
1. I think being sexy is both, but in some cases not both at the same time. You can be born with the power of attraction, some have to work for it.

2. I don't think about it much, but if I were to wager a bet - my frank attitude towards life. Then my eyes, then my tits...in that order.

3. Anytime I wear a dress or skirt, that seems to drive men apeshit.

4. Hm. I think I might do a separate post on that, because it's too extensive.

5. Easy, at least with me...Henry Cavil. The brunette/blue eyes combo gets these panties wet. Plus his natural hair is curly and he has chest hair. GRRR.

6. Performing arts, and me being a cliché - writers, actors, musicians, photographers, singers, and illustrators. However, I find educators sexy; a guy who says he's a teacher or is going to be one, his stock rises in my book. I find male nurses appealing, only because of the subversion of what was seen as a traditionally female profession. Chefs, and culinary arts in general. Lastly, scientists - either soft or hard sciences. I don't care.

7. Doesn't take a lot for me to get there. Lol

8. Aries because they always seem to keep me on my toes. They either like me chasing them or I like them chasing me. Gemini because of the breezy banter, intellect and lighthearted playfulness. Lastly, Scorpio because they're broody, moody, soulful, incisive, don't take any shit off of anyone, loyal and caring to a fault. And yes, sexy as fuck. Freaky as fuck. Best lovers I had were Scorps.

9. Black or red.

10. Well, it ain't me. Lol. biased, but my friend "Darrell" for his intelligence, playful and cheeky attitude, wit that keeps me cracking up and his compassion and warmth. He's also a big geek, which everyone knows I love. I think this is a given: Gardenboy. He's a passionate, poetic soul with romance in his veins. He has a beautiful mind, body and heart and doesn't seem to belong on a shallow place like this. He's a class act, and lucky the woman who finally wins his heart. And of the ladies? Lala, because she's not only beautiful (from what little of her I do see - but I judge people on their hearts, not looks) but vivacious and vibrant, warming up my dull little blog when she comments. She has the intellectual chops that I admire and she asks probing questions that don't deserve most of the shallow answers she gets on here. She's also too good to be on this dump, because she really isn't like most women.
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Stream of consciousness on relationships
Posted:Oct 22, 2018 11:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2018 3:22 pm
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I wonder why and sometimes think that the reason why, at least part of the time when it comes to cheating in relationships is because people treat marriage and long-term relationships like a monolith. It's not fluid and allowed elbow room. It doesn't grow with some people and doesn't allow people to grow as people in general. I read somewhere, probably Psychology Today, that the key to long-term friendships is the willingness to grow together. I always saw long-term relationships and marriage as a best friend you always want to be around. Some people agree with that, some don’t.

See, I come from a different school of thought when it comes to relationships as of late. The whole “relationship anarchy “ thing I've been reading about and that how you can be more fluid and flexible in relationships from familial to platonic to romantic. I get that not everyone will think about this and that certain relationships have their place above others, and that you're supposed to treat people according to their role in your life and what society has pressed on us. However, our feelings for people aren't static as much as we would like them to be.

Why can't we see it like that? Why do we apply the measure of the temporal to the seriousness of the relationship? I always thought that the only way to know someone was to spend months and years getting to know them, but there's a flaw there. People keep secrets for one; when things tend to go south, what's the first thing people say? “You think you know someone”. Secondly, people literally change from seven to ten years. They take on new habits, interests, points of view, etc. Friends, family and lovers either go in the same direction or become divergent. Thirdly, it's a comfort level thing. For example, some people tend to tell me things that they haven't really told anyone else for some reason or another. We bond from that. In fact, I have stronger ties to folks that aren't family more than my actual family. (don’t tell them that).

With also not equating measure of time spent to the seriousness of a relationship, there also a timeline, the dreaded escalator. Why does romance or friendship have to go only upwards to the next level to be a legitimate relationship? I'm not saying that something like fuck buddies can't grow into something meaningful, it's just why do they have to have a label, certain set of rules, and protocol? Why do we judge people who have been together for years, but never marry? Why do we judge people who have casual relationships for years and put undue pressure on them when where they are is just fine?

I was raised and brainwashed by television, so I was always told that my worth was only quantifiable by marriage, a home and kids in that order. I used to think that my folks having me out of wedlock was shameful, that I wasn't really worth anything by society's standards. Thing is that my parents did the right thing - my father was an abusive drunk and coke head who cheated on my mother. My mother was a neurotic nag with a temper and she also cheated. It was probably the more healthier option to just call it quits and not give your children the idea of that staying with an asshole person is “noble “, “loyal “ and “sacrificial “. It isn't.
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Expectation vs. Reality
Posted:Oct 22, 2018 7:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2018 9:43 am
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Everyone has expectations despite what they say to the contrary. If people didn't have any, no one would complain about this or other places, and I wouldn't make posts like these. So with dating as a whole--vanilla and alternative dating sites, what are your expectations and what you're looking for vs what you continue to get despite of everything?

Expectation(s)
- geeky or nerdy brunette, beard is optional
-local to me, like inside of town
-30 to 50 at the oldest
-single
-liberal
-intelligent
-gets my sense of humor
-loves cats
-looking for something long term

Reality
-men in their 60's, 70's, even 80's who swear up and down they're youthful with good stamina
- men who call you racist slurs upon rejection
- men from other states, even countries looking for a cheap hookup while in town
-guys younger than my youngest sister (she'll be 23 soon) who are looking for "milfs"
- lazy uninspired conversation
- guys who think you're the WORST if you don't love their dog
- guys with zero self confidence
- literal sociopaths
- overconfident guys who assume that you will hop on their dick, because why not?
- other races looking to try black women for the first time
- couples, mostly "unicorn hunters" who encroach on dating sites meant for singles
- chubby chasers, aka BBW lovers
- functional alkies
- sports nuts who eat, drink and shit college football
- single fathers with "baby mama drama"
- since I live in a college town, students who are looking for a cheap hookup
- guys who ghost you after a hook up
- "polyamorous" men, basically newbies who think that it consists two women to one guy
- "kinky" men, aka grampas in women's underwear and aggressive "submissive" men
- and drumroll please.....unhappily married men
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"Useless" talents and interests?
Posted:Oct 21, 2018 9:42 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2018 7:37 am
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You heard the meme or whatever this is, what are little things you know, can do or are interested in that people would consider "useless", irrelevant or inconsequential, but you enjoy and are passionate about? I always get asked, and ask the same old tired question of..."What are your hobbies/What do you like to do for fun?/Have any interests? " I just tell the person that "I'm boring" which doesn't leave much room for the conversation to grow and it stagnates right there. This is only because what I considered little talents, hobbies or interests weren't useful to society, when I should've been thinking about their meaning to me.

For example: I make great music playlists. Thing is that Spotify doesn't let you rearrange songs in your playlist which blows; because I can arrange them by mood, tempo to make something really cohesive.

Everyone's cat likes me for some weird reason. Maybe I play hard to get? But sure enough they come to me for pats and scritches.

I can make really delicious dips and sauces for my fries or meat.

I'm good at recommendations for websites or apps.

I can comparison shop, which is why (with the exception of my family draining me dry) I can find good deals and save money.

I know trivia about Eva Peron, the British Royal family and some songs and musicians. Just to name a few.

I can make a kick ass bathroom cleaner out of just Dawn and white vinegar.

This is weird, but I have a Utube playlist of movie and tv logo openings, i.e 20th Cent Fox, Paramount, CBS, ABC, etc from back in the day. I'm very curious as to what my folks and grands might've saw. I can't explain it, I like nostalgia I guess.

I collect music, digitally so. I have hundreds of albums of almost every genre and 1000's of songs.

Speaking of music, my ear can pick out and name the instrument and whether it was done with or without a computer (most songs are these days...booo!)

I can read astrological birth charts, which can get really convoluted. (I'm not a fortune teller, just passionate about astrology when I was younger)

I'm a social chameleon despite being really shy at times; I tend to get along with most (not all) people. I also seem to have a knack for making people feel really comfortable around me.

My mom thinks I make a damn good cup of coffee.

On the sexual side, my body is sensitive and responsive. I'm also multi orgasmic, but that's nothing because most women are....
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Microaggressions
Posted:Oct 19, 2018 5:22 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2018 9:23 pm
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So I was bopping around the site, looking at my "who viewed me" . Usually my eyes are directed towards the first profile if nothing else. This one caught my eye, because the headline mentioned something about "couples only wanting black men" , so I checked it out, and this....

This site is a joke there isn't one real single woman on here and the rest of the site is old couples whete the husband wants to sit in the corner and watch ghetto black men bang his wife

I've noticed this has been a thing around here as long as I've been here, which has been years. White men either complaining about how most women (let's be honest, White women) always want BBC, Black men, or just men of color in general. Since most of the time, I hear about how Black guys are allegedly "taking their womenz!!1" I'll zero in on that. What I find funny is, they're upset at something their ancestors basically started...

Ever since slavery of Africans became de rigure for about 300 years or so there was a fascination about us: our skin color, hair, lips, breasts, penis, vagina, backsides to the point where we were side show attractions, dissected to be put on display for "scientific research" posthumously and who knows whatelse. Hmm, Sarah Baartman is a good example. Or classification of enslaved Black men on the auctioneer's block as "bucks" and not sure where the origin of "mandingo" comes from, but White folks started with that. Based on this from Sarah Baartman's Wikipedia...

Travelogues that circulated in Europe would describe Africa as being "uncivilized" and lacking regard for religious virtue.[4] Travelogues and imagery depicting Black women as "sexually primitive" and "savage" enforced the belief that it was in Africa's best interest to be colonized by European settlers. Cultural and religious conversion was considered to be an altruistic act with imperialist undertones; colonizers believed that they were reforming and correcting Khoisan culture in the name of the Christian faith and empire.

It's interesting the same thing you guys feared us and still fear about us is our sexuality. You silence us and us apply veiled terms that are clearly derogatory like "ghetto" to describe us that you STILL are afraid. I know people would rather be mad instead of use reason, but it's like this: If white women and couples chase Black men obsessively, it's based on systematic racist shit that's been co-opted by porn and Black men who are probably aware of the connotations and some who aren't adopted it and threw it right back at you. Plus, on average NOT ALL Black men are ridiculously hung like that, again- pornography is fucking poison. If porn dictated all aspects of real life sexuality- I'd be able to squirt, but on the other hand, I'd have fake tits, bad tattoos and squeal like Minnie Mouse while getting banged. Bitch. Please.

Lastly, another often overlooked factor? You. There's a 10 to 1 ratio of men to women, and probably less for couples so it's big gotdamned sausage fest here. Race aside, you have to give women in general a reason to pick you and being passive-aggressive on your profile about something that ultimately doesn't concern you is a big turn off.
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I'm not paying for sex!
Posted:Oct 17, 2018 8:58 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2018 11:52 am
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I find it HILARIOUS as shit when men say this dripping with pride and indignation. They're above that, and won't do it when accosted by working women on the site. That's fair. It's fair because prostitution isn't legal ( at least for the common man in the United States) and probably never will be anytime soon. However, why is this a thing with men on business, where they roll into your town for a day or two with a hard dick, expecting that you will be down or even care about wanting to bang a stranger? From experience in my younger more sluttier days, instant sex with someone I just met is only good for the guy. I leave wondering what the hell was that.

Logic and reasoning isn't a horny man's strong suit. But it makes more sense to hire a sex worker who is paid to put up with your mediocre skills and performance, than a woman who is here of her own volition. Yet men beyond the legal ramifications turn their nose up at sex workers which are there for just what you need, but you soft coerce female members into the same thing: a hit and run session just to get your rocks off while you're in town. And there's a 99.9% chance you will be shot down because free will kicks ass. And most if not all the women here want more than a few pumps and then are allowed to leave. Hey guys! If you haven't already been told...not everyone will be into what you want to do. Most of all, and I know that it absolutely kills you inside to know this, but women are people, too. Wow. So much truth.

I figure if you're on business, make it worth her time and inconvenience or shut the fuck up, get some lube and jerk it to all the free porn you have here and elsewhere.
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